读书计划英语作文80字【一】
影响孩子控制智力的另一个因素是家长的反应。如果孩子一哭闹就能得到他想要的东西，孩子就会继续这样，形成恶性循环。反之，如果孩子哭闹的时候，家长直接压制，说，不许哭！这样无法消除孩子的消极情绪，还可能反弹个更厉害。
那么，父母怎样的反应能成功降低孩子的冲动呢？我的做法是首先描述孩子的感受，接纳他的情绪：“我知道这个娃娃很好玩，你很想要，对吧？”然后跟他强调规则：“但是这个星期你已经买了一个玩具了。我们说好了的，一个星期只买一个玩具，对不对呀？”最后提供给孩子一个替换方案：“家里的小熊跟这个娃娃一样，都是软软的，咱们回去抱小熊好不好？”家长可能有一个误区，就是以为，冲动是可以压制的。其实，冲动是无法完全压制的，但是通过给孩子替代方案，我们可以帮助孩子转一定要的冲动。
读书计划英语作文80字【二】
如今大家都在提倡鼓励性教育，那么如何对孩子赞美才能起到正面的作用呢？
《给孩子的未来脑计划》这本书建议我们做到以下三点：
1、表扬努力，而不是表扬聪明。
2、表扬过程，而不是表扬结果。
3、表扬成长，而不是表扬表现。
经过心理学家长期的研究，发现一个人秉持的观点会对以后的生活产生极大的影响。当你告诉孩子\"你真棒\"\"你真聪明\"的时候，表面是在鼓励孩子，实际是在潜移默化的帮孩子塑造成固定型思维模式的人，觉得事情做得好是因为自己有天赋，做的不好则是没有天赋，所以面对困难时就选择知难而退。这样表扬孩子的方法不对，不但不能帮助孩子建立自信心，反而可能妨碍他将来的发展。
这在我们的教学中同样可以采用，我们的校长就常常鼓励我们表扬学生要具体，不能一概而论。例如：在表扬时对学生较吃力的同学经常说：\"老师相信你经过努力一定能行！\"对有奇特想法的学生说：\"你很有创造力，但是还要继续努力。\"对说话声音小的同学说：\"你的声音真好听，能再大点声吗？\"对于从不发言的同学说：\"你今天的表现让我感到骄傲。\"今天成长型的表扬方法正跟我们平时学到的具体表扬方法相吻合，所以只要这样表扬孩子才会让孩子对自己建立起自信心，提高学习、思考、积极表达的兴趣。
孩子做得好时，要用成长型的表扬方法，同样在批评孩子的错误时，也要用成长型心智模式来看孩子的.品质。
批评孩子的错误时，《给孩子的未来脑计划》这本书建议我们做到以下三点：
1、要告诉孩子错在哪里。
2、不要放大错误行为，不要给孩子贴标签。
3、要告诉他如何改正。
批评孩子的真正目的是要帮助孩子成长，而不是发泄你的情绪，所以当孩子做错时，老师跟家长一样都应该要告诉孩子错在哪里，这样孩子才能改进，才能成长。如果我们不告诉孩子错在哪里，只顾自己发泄情绪，这对孩子没有任何帮助，只会使他越来越讨厌我们的批评。批评孩子的时候一定要注意只讲他这件事错在哪儿，千万不能翻旧账，不要把他一次的错误无限放大。无理由的扩大批评的范围会造成失焦，也给不了孩子具体的指导，而且很容易激起孩子的抗拒和反感情绪。
所以，孩子犯错不是不可以批评，而是要用正确的方法批评。用成长型的批评，孩子会成长；固定型的批评，既不告诉孩子为什么错，也不告诉孩子该怎么办，那不是批评，而是发泄情绪。这样批评出来的孩子，长大后容易没有个性，缺乏自尊和自信。我们老师和家长在这方面也应该注意批评的方式，让孩子明确改正错误的方向，这样对孩子的终身成长才会有益。
读书计划英语作文80字【三】
还有一种害羞，源于家长平时对孩子的过度保护。这种情况很常见，特别是爷爷奶奶外公外婆这些祖辈，往往会过度保护孩子，总对孩子说不要乱跑、当心。这会让孩子以为这个世界很危险，于是便的不愿意主动探索，胆小畏缩，对人害羞了。
读书计划英语作文80字【四】
He little imagined how my heart warmed towards him when I beheld his black eyes withdraw so suspiciously under their brows, as I rode up, and when his fingers sheltered themselves, with a jealous resolution, still further in his waistcoat, as I announced my name.
We crept through a broken hedge, groped our way up the path, and planted ourselves on a flower-plot under the drawing-room window.
It was beautiful - a splendid place carpeted with crimson, and crimson-covered chairs and tables, and a pure white ceiling bordered by gold, a shower of glass-drops hanging in silver chains from the centre, and shimmering with little soft tapers. Isabella
she is eleven, a year younger than Cathy - lay screaming at the farther end of the room, shrieking as if witches were running red-hot needles into her.The long light hair curled slightly on the temples; the eyes were large and serious; the figure almost too graceful.
She, supposing Edgar could not see her, snatched the cloth from my hand, and pinched me, with a prolonged wrench, very spitef/wenzi/ully on the arm.
Her eyes began to glisten and her lids to twinkle.
Her lips were half asunder, as if she meant to speak, and she drew a breath; but it escaped in a sigh instead of a sentence.
My love for Linton is like the foliage in the woods: time will change it, I’m well aware, as winter changes the trees. My love for Heathcliff resembles the eternal rocks beneath: a source of little visible delight, but necessary.
There was a violent wind, as well as thunder, and either one or the other split a tree off at the corner of the building: a huge bough fell across the roof, and knocked down a portion of the east chimney-stack, sending a clatter of stones and soot into the kitchen-fire.
And her teeth chattered as she shrank closer to the almost extinguished embers.
It had got dusk, and the moon looked over the high wall of the court, causing undefined shadows to lurk in the corners of the numerous projecting portions of the building.
A ray fell on his features; the cheeks were sallow, and half covered with black whiskers; the brows lowering, the eyes deep-set and singular.
读书计划英语作文80字【五】
Background of Jane Eyre
Jane Eyre is the masterpiece of Charlotte Bronte, an English woman author in 19th century. The works possess romanticism and realism. It is also thought that this book is author’s autobiography.
Introduction of Jane Eyre
Jane was a pure and thinkable woman, who lived in substrata of society and struck with life. But she was fractious and the sprite of perusing happiness. The works sing the love respecting each other and break away from conman customs and preoccupation. The most successful of this book is to figure a female image who dared to gainst and try for liberte and egalite.
Characteristics of characters
Jane Eyre was a born resister, whose parents went off when she was very young, and her aunt，the only relative she had，treated her as badly as a ragtag. She had a terrible childhood but it’s not affected her future because she is poor but aspiring, small in body but huge in soul, obscure but self-respecting girl.
Jane was also a thinkable woman in her love, she thought love is equal, free and respecting, so she gain a happy ending with beautiful personality.
My thoughts of Jane Eyre
Jane owns goodness for her lover, Rochester, who lost arms and eyes, and also for someone who had hurt her.
Jane owns pursuit for justice; it helps her to promote goodness on one side and check the badness on the other side.
Jane owns self-respect and clear situation on equality. Also her life experience is hardships, but she never underrates herself. She thinks everyone is the same. She has the right to gain happiness through hardworking.
Jane owns toughness, confidence and striving for life……
She is not beautiful and wealthy and very normal in conman’s mind. But in my opinion, the beauty on the face is not important than in the heart because the beauty of heart could live forever but not the beauty of face.
So, to me or to all girls in the world, we needn’t inferiority and complaint with ourselves if we don’t have beauty and wealth because the true happiness is not gained by the tow things. Actually, we should learn to be a person who is like Jane, how fearless woman.
读书计划英语作文80字【六】
\"The Little Prince\" is a clear book, as clear as the water. It’s writes for adults, teenagers and children. It is a book about life and the lives of the fable. As the book said, the water on the heart is beneficial. And \"Little Prince\" can make people feel warm and fresh.
The story is about a boy. He lives on a small planet. He is the only person of the planet. He is a lonely prince. Fortunately, a beautiful rose came in his life. They loved each other. But a little argument separated them. He left the planet which he lives, starts traveling. He went to many planets and met many different people. He likes to watch the sunset when he was sad. He found that people wanted happiness, but always pushed away happiness rudely.
At last, he understood how to love each other. Love and life is a very important thing. He is very regret. He wanted to return to the planet which he lives. But he didn’t know the road. He chose to drank snake venom end his life because he thought it will be able to cast off his bulky body to go back.
Every time, when I read \"The Little Prince\", I always moved about it. In real life, we often busy in the whole day, such as a fly without soul. The passage of time, childhood away, we grew up and took away a lot of memories, but we also have an oasis in the heart.
Because ‘The Little Prince’ story, we live in quiet, the heart has a hope and love, have touched on the responsibility of the life.
读书计划英语作文80字【七】
深感时间不够用的中年父母，读到一本高质量的书，才不会觉得浪费生命。学习了几年育儿知识后，明显感觉到各类育儿博主的局限性，即使是最真诚的博主，为了转发量和体验有时也不得不牺牲内容。更不要说碎片化阅读不可能让学科成体系融会贯通了。碎片化阅读只适合头痛医头，脚痛医脚。
参考了许多学霸的建议后，发现无论学习哪个学科，阅读内容都是需要分级的。
1、最好能直接阅读高质量期刊的论文。
2、其次是经典教材。
3、接下来科学家本人写的科普书籍。
4、有丰富经验的一线实践者写的真诚的分享也可供实用参考。
5、非专业的深度业余爱好者写的内容
以上内容的含金量有先后次序。（其他既不专业也不爱好，纯靠转发量驱动的内容不计算在内。）
只是对于非学术圈的父母来说，不仅很难找到含金量高的论文、书籍，即便找得到，这些内容几乎都是专业的英语，普通人真的很难读下来，结结巴巴的读下来了也要花很长时间消化理解。最重要的是还要辨别优劣，来者不拒不仅浪费时间，万一学到错误、过时的内容就得不偿失了。
偶然看了魏坤琳博士的得到专栏，随后买了这本书来看，心里忍不住雀跃啊。一是开心，自己总结的路子是正确的，书中的内容印证了看过的论文、教材。而是好多内容似乎以前读过，但不甚理解。经过叨叨魏的解释和实践，不仅帮助理解，还能举一反三了。
我个人觉得这本书最值得买的原因是，在大多数人看一手资料困难的前提下，这本书里的理论和原理，都来自被反复验证、最新最前沿的科学研究成果。换句话说，所有的理论都能在高质量的论文里找到来源。这就足够让信息不畅的非学霸惊喜了。
除此之外，叨叨魏举的各种例子和建议的方法，也都更符合中国国情，更贴近中国父母的养育环境。对于即使阅读了论文却苦于理解和实际操作的我来说，这些案例甚至无需思考，不仅可以直接用还能再激发我创造更适合自己的方法。
认识了爱贝睿觉得很幸运，并不完全是为了孩子。如果不是为了功利的目的而只是出于兴趣爱好，学习真是件有趣的事。前提是学习方法、学习内容是不是可行、是不是正确。不必在众多被反复演绎的知识中推理辨别真伪，能直接靠近优秀科学家的结论，真的是节省了太多时间。虽然想要学习真正的一手知识，还是绕不开英语能力，但一边练习英语一边学习最靠近源头的知识，听从真正权威的专业人士指导，是目前最好的选择。
读书计划英语作文80字【八】
how time flies，unconsciouslthe next winter vacation will soon come.in order to improve myself awell aenjoa happholiday,i made the winter vacation plan.
firstli want to continue with mstudy,i think studia life process,so no matter what the situation i am in,i will look for chanceto continue it.i have bought several new book,including those bookon mmajor(专业and some novel,i will trto finish reading them in the holidaand write notes. j
secondly,since it ithe holiday,i will share it with mfamiland friend.you know the spring festival will soon come, i believe i would chatting and plagamewith mfriendand famil.i think i will enjothe vacation.
